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First I would like to point out that I'm not as ghostly white as my picture looks. I actually have a really nice tan. :)

Hey, I just read this for the first time in a long time and I realized I sounded like a complete female Rainman. Anyway, I'm pretty much amazing, haha. I love to help people out with minor or major problems, so you ask me anything and I will answer it to the best of my ability! My favorite topics to give advice on are DEBATE, FRIENDS, POLITICS, MUSIC, and SPORTS (a recent thing!). I'm a typical Texas (college) football fan. That's pretty much it, so get to asking questions and stop reading this! :)
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this is gonna sound way conceited, but i promise, im not trying to be. im much prettier then my friend. i mean, shes like fat and everything, so i mean obviously, guys dont like her much. plus she acts really stupid alot. anyways, since im a freshman, ive made alot of new friends. and so when me and her will be wlaking down the hall, just about every person says hi to me, and i stop and talk and make yano small talk. and she gets mad, and walks away. anyways, whenever i talk about like guys or something, she like finds some way to insult them. and its just really annoying. what should i do? (link)
Wow.. calling your friend fat AND annoying doesn't make you a very good friend at all. She's obviously a good friend since she's sticking with you even though you do talk behind her back, assuming you don't call her fat to her face.

Try to act mature and talk to her about everything. Maybe she's insecure and needs a FRIEND to help her feel good about herself. Maybe give her compliments every once in a while like "*name* your shirt is really cute! You look so good in it!" Don't ignore her when you're talking with people she doesn't know, introduce her and maybe she wont act like that.

I used to have a friend like that and instead of being a jerk, I talked to her about everything. Try being a friend to her instead of complaining about her faults. A little bit of positive can go a lot further than a lot of negative. You really need to re-evaluate your actions because, being a freshman and all, people are already going to look down on you since you're new to the school and acting like that towards a friend is just goinog to make you look worse. You're going to need your friend one of these days and if you act like that they might not be there for you.


Thank you for the crappy rating, I can really see what kind of person you are. I gave you the advice you asked for, but I also showed you what kind of person you come off as. Good luck freshman year, you're probably going to get stuffed in a locker if you keep acting this way.

OKAY, SINCE NOTHING ELSE I SAID HELPED YOU MAYBE THESE LINKS WILL.
http://www.wikihow.com/Use-You're-and-Your
and
http://www.alphadictionary.com/articles/english_grammar_style/difference_between_their_there.html

Hint: next time you insult someone, try to think of something more intelligent and mature.


Rating: 1
haahahah. you have ALOT of spare time, that you are trying to insult me. you get worked up way to easily. and are going to die of a heartattack, go get a hobby or something. because i seriously, dont care.



you're so freaking stupid. why would anyone call there friend fat? i never talk behind her back. posting a question on here, to a bunch of random strangers, isn't talking behind her back. i dont ignore her when im talking to people, she hurries up and walks away. your so stupid. that was a waste of your time, even responding to that question. it wasnt helpful at all.




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