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So I'm dating this guy and he lives out of state,and so I was talking to his brother and his brother and him are like best friends and I know he was like a HUGE person into like drugs,so i thought it wasnt that bad becuz he was never like on them when i was talking to him,so today was the first time right? and i love this guy like a lot,more than a lot. and so he was like ok ok whatever to me and i was like i love you and he like always says i love you more but this time he was like ok whatever. so his brother gets on and tells me that his high. and that maybe what would make him stop was if me and him took a break and ireally dont want to, and so i talked to my boyfriend and his like i dont know i really need to get this drug thing over with,i really dont want to take a break but maybes its the best thing,and i dont believe it is, because like me and him have been dating for almost 3 months and me and him are always saying we love eachother and today he commented me saying i want to spend the rest of my life with you,what do i do? I dont want to take a break from me and him becuz i dont want to loose him,adive? help? (link)
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I understand where you're coming from and that is a very tough position to be in. I think though, that taking a break may be best for both of you. His drug addiction is something he has to deal with and get past. I understand that you don't want to take a break from dating him, but don't you think maybe it's for the best? He knows that you love him and that he loves you, so maybe by taking a break he can concentrate on overcoming his addiction. Reassure him that you're there for him and love him, but tell him that he needs to get clean before the two of you can continue on with the relationship. It's like that old saying, if you love someone let them free, if they come back than it was meant to be, and if they don't than it wasn't meant to be. You obviously love him a lot and by taking a break he'll be able to clean up his act and you guys can have an even better relationship than before. I hope this advice helps at least a little bit. Good luck with everything. And remember, what's mean to be will always find a way.
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Well,thanks. I talked to him today and everything is good. He didn't want to take a break either. but we gotten into a little argue, but i need you're help,bcuz you seem you know what you're talking about,ha.
His best friend is a girl and she told me if i say anything mean to her or something she gets ticed off about,she'll make him dump me. what do i do?
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