Member Since: September 5, 2007
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14/f
uhm i'm thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend. but i don't know what i should do. like when we talk on the phone and stuff and on aim everythings fine but then in person i feel really weird with him. normally it's the other way around. and like i like him and we dated twice before but sometimes i think i was happier single. but i don't know! oh and i'm also afraid it will ruin our friendship because before we were dating this time we were freinds and hung in school and if i dump him that'll probably change. part of me is saying just break up with him and the other parts like noo don;t do it!
i'm so confused. i'm just not into boys and going out with them as much as i used too. it's strange. it was so less complicated before. so any advice on what i should do? please don't say follow your heart or snything like that because right now it's confused. what would you do?
oh anddd like if i do decide to break up with him how should i do it? like what should i say?
thank you so much. =] (link)
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well before you break up with him ask your self why youre feeling uncomftorable. if you dont figure that out maybe you should talk to him and say,"In person i get nervous and uncomftorable when we hang out. I still like you, but i miss how it was when we were friends." I think you guys should be "friends with benefits", this way you can find other people but still be "together" with him. if fwb isnt in the cards just tell him straight up how you feel. it may take him a while to get used to "just friends" but you cant go out with him when your hearts not in it.
Hope i helped
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