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we have been together for over a year, me and my boy. my boyfriend is basically the most popular boy in school, good looking, active and sweet. me, im active but i'm not a geek nor popular. i'm just you know, average. i'm not really skinny or really fat, and i'm not gorgeous or ugly either. anyways we were talking today about our ex boy/girl friends and parties we have attended && such. so then he was telling me, "at parties i would always be flirting with a hot girl and in like five minutes making out with them" then that kinda ticked me off, but it's true. before he was with me, i went to same partys with him and he could/did. i'm not gonna lie i've made out at parties too but not like in five minutes and stuff. so i went home and i guess i'm kinda jealous of him. the thing is though, he loves me, and i mean alot, why else would he go out with a flat chested girl for more then a year. dont get me wrong, i love him too. but since he told me that i guess i'm just jealous, jealous of all the girls that have ever kissed him, and when i kissed him goodbye, in my mind all i could think about was all those girls who have touched his lips. basically, how can i get over this, jealousy i have? opinons or comments are appreciated =/ (link)
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Those girls he kissed were all in his past and they obviously meant nothing to him, and you obviously do mean a lot to him seeing as you have been together for a year. You just have to come to peace with the idea that that was his past and it doesn't make any difference to who he is now.
Its never easy finding out about your boyfriends past and it is normal to feel jealous about it... but the bottom line is you don't have anything to be jealous about seeing as you are with him.
All you really can do now is accept it and move past it.
Best of luck, hope this helps.
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