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My name is Alyssa. People usually end up calling me Ali. Whatever works for you, works for me. I'm a pretty ordinary 15 year old. I havent really found my "hidden talent" yet, but most people tell me that i give good-working advice. I just moved from Wisconsin to Chicago around four months ago. I've had to adjust to alot of things in my life. I hate getting pity. I love to take hikes! My goal is to basically help young African children! I'm a very nice person, and I usually look @ the bright side with things. I live by the band incubus. I've went to 17 of their concerts (: Ask me anything, anytime. Just dont bother me or waste my time. Have a great day.

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Ok so i just started my 8th grade year! however last year there was this boy named kevin and me and him were the kind of friends who just waved to eachother between periods..Almost at the end of the year me and him started to talk and we became good friends! At the end of the school year everybody was celebrating and hugging people because it was the last day of school. Kevin came up behind me and asked for a hug so i gave him a hug and i was kinda surprised he wanted to hug me..Later on in the summer i waz at a sleep over at my friend melissa's house and i started talking to Kevin..ALOT..My friend melissa said randomly "WOW you knoe kevin!" and i sayd yea and i asked her how she knew him and she said she went to elementary with him///So we were on myspace for a while and we started calling eachother cute little bf/gf names as a joke...His ex randomly sent me a messege on my myspace and asked me if i liked him and i said yea the i got an instant messege from kevin and he said his ex taylor asked him if he liked me and i asked him what he told her and he said yea...After a few seconds he asked me what i said and i quickly logged off...I texted him and told him i said yea... then we started flirting..he told me to call him and i did..it was around 7 pm and the conversation didnt end untill 4 in the mornin!A few weeks of flirting went by and we became a thing! he asked me out through text messege and i gladly said YES bt after about a month when he asked me out we started arguing over dumb stuff and he has this show on myspace called
"CHANNEl 69 New at 11:oo" i found out he made a new episode and usualy in his "SHow" IT was staring Him and my socalled bro Jonny from skoo..So i looked at he new vid and there waz no Jonny! just sum uther kid and kevin!And all of the sudden i heard him making fun of jonny and saying jonny had herpes! i got mad and tol,d kevin it wasnt right and messeged jonny telling him wat kev said...Then kevin found ouot wut i did and he started giving me attitude so i told him not to talk to me if he was going to act like that..so a few weeks wents by and i finaly messeged him tellin him i didnt wanna be mad nemore and he said he didnt either so i though we were kool...Then that night i got this girl texting my phone saying
"leave my lover kevin Alone! he doesnt like you" so i wuz like wtf! So i asked kevin y he gave away my number and he said it was revenge for tellin jonny wat he had said then i found out the mystery girl was his EX taylor! so me and him started to hate eachother but after all the drama i think i still like him!!!1
WHAT DO I DO!!!

First of all, I think Kevin is a fine guy from what I am hearing, but honestly if he's getting that pissed from these pointless things, he has some attitude problems. I think you need to text him and say, you know what kevin? I think we BOTH need to change our ways if you want "us" to workout. If you only say he needs to be nicer, then he's just going to get angry. After your fine little chat with him about all of the problems and uneeded drama, tell him that you still have feelings for him and you want it to go back to how it was before all of the crap! If he knows that you still want him after everything, he's definately going to realize how much you care about him. Although guys don't often show how they truly, emotionally feel, it doesn't mean he isnt sensitive in spots too! So if everything doesnt work, and you and him are still getting in fights that just leave you sad and depressed, get over him. Find someone who can make you feel great!

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(Rating: 5) Wow everything u said there made alot of sence to me! That is realy great advise! thanx and i hope he excepts my apology =]]
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