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Q: Hi! Ok, this boy and i have been friend for a year and we're like best friends. We have liked each other off and on for the last year (by the way were teenagers so it's not serious!) We have both had relationships though so nothing ever happened. Then I dumped my summer boyfriend in the middle/end of June(short relationship) and in earl July he asked me to his Grandparents 50th anniversary party. He had already told me he liked me and stuff but I wasn't sure if i did) We went and while we were there we walked around and sat and talked and stuff and he put a bunch of moves on me. I didn't like it and felt really uncomfortable because for some reason I didn't like him! All of the sudden when he liked me I didn't! He asked me out but I said I will think about it. Then we decided not too. The thing is EVERYONE thinks we're the perfect couple! We went on a mission trip and everyone decided (and started planning!) our wedding because apparently we're getting married! Just a joke though, but even his MOM said we are "a match made in heaven". We are both Japanese and are really like each other. We are both religious too and he is just like me which practically no one else is. So we really connect! His bff and older brother keep pressuring me to go out with him now. I know we will some time, but I don't think right now is the right time. When we finally wants to start a relationship I DON'T! It is so weird but i can't like him any more than a friend! I don't know what to do! I want to try it out but i really want to start this school year single! Please help me!!! I hate the pressure and want to try it out but I don't know if it's the right time! And i don't think I like him much more than really good friends! Thanx!!!!!!! ♥♥♥♥♥
expain to him that you care about him alot, but your just not ready for a relationship right now, but deffinitly in the future. if he really cared about you hed understand

hope i helped =]

If i start school and dont have any real sparks should i give it a try??? and thanx for ur help!

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CaileyxCalamity

Hey there tart im Caileyy



im thirteen years young


im short


im happy..unless you give me a reason not to be =]


i get mad easily


my friends are kind of a big deal


i lied they are a really big deal =]


i eat yu-gi-oh cards..


no lie


im weird.. u dont have to tell me i already know


im shy... untill you get to know me


i think im funny


i laugh too much


i dont take things serious enough


and i dont know if thats a good thing or a bad thing =]


i have an obsession with nightmare of you


there the best


im a neopets addict..


all day;; everyday


love that phrase =]


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