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15/f
so this guy im dating broke up with me this morning because there was a lot of drama and people presuring him to brake up with me because this other guy whos kinda popular at my school wants to go out with me so he was getting his friends to try to get my boyfriend to brake up with me because he thinks my boyfriend doesnt treat me right, a lot of people tell me that and i really love him but i found out yesterday he cheated on me with my cousin.. i got mad more at my cousin then him and i said we could work it out, if it was any other guy i would have dumped him but i lost my virginity to this guy and he basically lives at my house and i dont want to leave him but i no i should and so he said today lets brake up for a couple days untill the drama stops but hes comming to my house on wednesday to stay for a week.. should i listen to everyone else and not see him anymore? or should i stay with heart and try to work things out? im so confused and this popular guy i was talking about i dont know i always look to see if hes online and i think i might kinda have a little crush on him ah im so confused? help?! (link)
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Sweetheart,
Love shouldn't be this complicated at your age. What are your reasons for staying with this guy. Love is not a good enough reason; you can love a stuffed animal, but when it gets worn out you should throw it away. Does he treat you well? Does he challlenge you, make you a better person? Is he honest? Can you trust him? Does he have your best interest at heart? If you've answered no to one or more of these questions you should not be with him. On the flip side. You are the only one that can live your life. Don't allow others to make decisions for you. If you learn now how to take care of yourself and make the right decisions it will be a piece of cake when you get older.
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