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Q: okay, well there's this guy. he's almost a year younger than i am. but we're not going out. he's been liking me for almost a year now, and i didn't notice the things he's done for me since a few weeks ago. the last time me & him hung out, was at the mall & the theaters and stuff like that. and he held my hand ALOT. and every time if i let go, he wouldn't let go of my hand. he'd just keep holding onto it. so i might be able to like him. :] but then two days ago.. i think i accidentally blew up my chance. we got into an argument, it was our first argument ever. and i saw him comment his friend. "...ok now i don't have feeling for her anymore haha" and then he was like "dam chi im fucking piss off right now seriously fucking hate it when i help somebody and all of the sudden get fucking cussed at by one of your best friends man that fuck up man that fucking retarded right there shit don't know why the hell i help her fucking ass now shit just wasted my fucking time pretty much doing jack! argh! only if you were still on dam nobody to fucking talk to and chi i hope you never become like one of them fucker" and then later they comment him back and was like "whats wrong?" and then he was like "nothing just go piss off that all" cause me & him made-up and stuff.. and i felt bad.. but like.. he said i had no emotions or expression or whatever. and called me a rock. but i didn't mind the rock part, cause he was my rock. but it was the expressions and stuff like that, that made me blow up. but me & him apologized to each other, so we're good now. so after me & him made up, like i felt bad for blowing up on him. and then he was like i didn't have to feel bad.. but i still did.. cause that was our first fight ever. and then he was like "if i say i love u will u stop?" and then that's when i read the comment about the don't have feelings for me anymore. and besides.. i don't want him to say it if he doesn't mean it.. so then i was like "its okay.. you don't need to. don't worry i'll be fine." and then i stopped talking.... and i went to go watch tv. and then he kept aiming me and was like "...i love you mary."
"i love you awhole lot hunnnie"
"=["
"like you said people have their ups and down"
"it ok"
"you don't have to be mad"
"cmon mary"
"please"
"..."
"your not ok"
"cmon hunnie everybody have the moment they just have to burst its ok"
"mary please"
and then that's when he texted me & called me..... i didn't pick up his phone call though. and his text said "its ok hunnie you dont have to feel bad about it im threw with it now be happy hunnie bunny" i didn't answer that either. then he went back to aiming me. and was like
"hunnie!"
"common"
"im ok with it now"
"please"
"i love you mary please stop blaming yourself"
"mary you make me mad at myself"
"=["
"im srry i got you mad at yourself"
"im srry for everything that didnt go out right"
then his away message was like "im sorry for everything i did wrong...i love you"
and he still calls me "hunnie" and stuff like that, but i'm not sure if he still likes me. cause now, i'm acting kinda different, like if he says "i love you" to me, i keep thinking "does he really?"

can somebody tell me if he still likes me or what? i'm very confused right now. :[[[ somebody please help me?!

Yes, he still likes you, but how long do you think he's going to hold on. If you like him, you should tell him. He has given you several hints that he has feelings for you. If you keep holding out about your feelings, when you do decide to tell him, it may be too late. Also, him apologizing to you over and over will get old soon too. No one likes to get rejected, the heart is a delicate flower.

hehe thank you for the advice!

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