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Q: theres this girl on my cheerleading team who is ruining the whole thing. shes really mean and always starts drama and fights and gets people against each other. shes like a poison that spreads through the team and makes it miserable for everyone. well anyway she also does a lot of bad things, like drinking, smoking pot, sends naked pics of herself to guys, etc. if she gets caught she could get kicked off... which i really hope she does, because our cheer team would be soooo much better without her. so i've sort of thought about sending a anonimous note to the school, telling them about the stuff she does. but i dont know if that would backfire or not? becuz they might just talk to her and warn her not to do that stuff, and then she'd be more careful and never get caught. and i really want her to get caught and kicked off because im serious it is really bad with her there. so what do you think? is it better to tell on her, or just wait and hope she gets caught? and i know this sounds really mean, but if you could really see how bad she is, you'd feel this way too. oh and please dont say to talk to her about it, because thats been tried and doesnt work.
try catching her. get her on video smoking pot/drinking/etc. then give it to your cheer coach and talk to your school about it.

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