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Ok, Sorry if this is not in the right category..but ok here it is

i currently live in mexico, i am head over heals in love with this guy, & he claims he loves me too...((he isnt myboyfriend though, not anymore at least))..we have been *together* for almost 1 1/2 yrs.. i basically feel like i cant live without him, he is te best thing that has ever happened to me... & last year i went away to the U.S for a month while he stayed here is mexico,before i went to the US everything was picture perfect with us.. he loved me so much & i knew he did, we always saw eachother, we talked everyday, he treated me like i was the most important thing in the world... which made me love him even more.. but when i came back.. everthing was different with us & he would always fight & never saw eachtother anymore or talked much... it was like i was just someone he knew... not someone important to him... i believe he fell out of love with me..

but now things are finally getting so much better with us again.. i loves me again (he always tells me) we always see eachother, we always talk, once again i am the most important thing in his world ((he has always been mine, since i met him))

now the problem is... i have the chance to go back to the US for about 1 or 2 months.. i want to o buti dont.. because i am so afraid that if i go.. that when i come back all the problems will come back... he will once aain fall out oflove with me.. and i dont want that.. i mean.. i want to go i havent been there in almost a year, but if i go.. i dont want problems with him again.. he is the most important thing in my life, and i cant bare to loose him again the way i did before..

so what do you think i should do??

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You should totally go to the US dear. If he loves you he can wait 2 months to let you do something you love. And also no guy can fall so quickly out of love then hop back on. Maybe he had problems going on when you returned? But I wish you well dear with whatever you decide:)


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