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Q: My boyfriend, of 2 years, just recently broke up with me, well like 6 months ago. He never really allowed me to let go, so I never really did. But finally we started drifting apart, and then he messages me & tells me that he wants me back.
I had met a boy, and we had been "talking" & I thought I liked him, until my ex tells me that, then everything this boy did, completely annoyed me. Well, my ex found out that I was talking to someone else, so he stopped talking to me, for about a week or so & me & this other boy grew closer, so we started dating. Well my ex comes back & I cheat on my new boyfriend, I told my boyfriend & he didn't get really mad, which bothered me. He let me get away with it, because he said he didn't want to lose me.
Now my ex rarely talks to me, because my boyfriend threatened him. & I want my ex back so bad. But I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. We've almost been together a month & he's super attached & so is his family. But I've been having to make up excuses to just not see him because he KILLS me. I just want my ex back, but I don't know what to do.
I can't break up with my boyfriend, because he's too attached & I've tried before & it just doesn't work.
I know this is long & confusing, but I really need help.

personally i think your ex sounds like a big tease. from what you said its like he wants you only because you have someone else. (jealousy?) your boyfriend now sounds like he really needs you and wants you and hasnt mistreated you at all (from what i know)i think you should give your ex a break and see how it goes with your boyfriend. i understnad where you are coming from ive been in a situation like before, so im no juding you or anything just form past experiences i think it would be best ot be with your boyfriend, he might have seem annoying because now you can pick out all his flaws and compare him with you ex. like i said beore i think you should cut things of ith your ex and"patch" things up with your Boyfriend

hope i helped :)

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