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Alright. I have a bit of a dialema on my hands. I really like this guy [who happens to be my boyfriend]. I think I might love him but I'm scared to say so because of previous experiences.
But I goofed up. Big time. I cheated and gave a guy a handjob. It was a dare. And I know that doesn't make it any better at all, but you have to understand, I didn't want to.
So I told my boyfriend because guilt has been bothering me for a while and apparently, alot of people knew about it. He was mad. I haven't talked to him in three days unless you count a minute long conversation yesterday.
I need to know he's okay, that he doesn't hate me; even though I know he has every right to. I betrayed him. So do I try and get him to talk to me? Or do I back off? I don't want to bother him and make him more angry but I don't want it to seem like I don't care enough to see how he's doing! Argh! I'm so damn stupid. Why would I do that?! (link)
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"I'm so damn stupid"
Slutty acts call for such a reaction from your boyfriend.
You can always turn a dare down, and saying that you couldn't is a bunch of bullshit. Don't deny the fact you could have.
Did you not turn it down because you wanted to? I don't know many people that would do that for the hell of it... (I lied. I do, but they're a bunch of sluts who fuck anything that moves. Is that what you are or are becoming?)
Give him some space, I'm sure for one he isn't happy with the entire fiasco sifting through the school halls. Hell, I know I wouldn't be happy knowing my GF just did that to some other guy, and I'd be incredibly pissed to know she'd do it off of a dare and didn't have the balls -rhetorically speaking- to actually turn it down.
Leave him alone, but try to talk to him here and there, to let him know you're at least interested. Just say you apologize for being a slut to him by way of text, either by phone or by aim etc.
Completely ignoring him would make him think you've moved on and he should do (if he isn't already preparing to do that.)
As for you last question "Why would I do that?"
That's really fucking great. Why would you? Give it some thought and rethink where your heart really is. If you actually loved this guy would you have done what you did? Why did your past relationships break up?
Don't make up excuses for yourself saying "it was a dare I HAD to." That's a bunch of bullshit.
You've gotta rethink your priorities.
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I do, but they're a bunch of sluts who fuck anything that moves. Is that what you are or are becoming?
I bloody hope not.
I know I could have said no to the dare. I messed up. But believe me, just because I did it, doesn't mean that I wanted to. I appreciate the feedback, and pretty much all I've been doing the past week is rethinking my priorities.
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