My name is Chelsea, I'm 17 & a senior in high school. I like giving advice and helping people in general. I have the most experience in areas like family issues, dealing with friends and losing friends, pregnancy scares, and moving. I've made mistakes and learned from them. That's where my experience comes from. So why not help someone in the same situation that you've already been in? I'll try to do just that, and if you have a question don't hesitate to ask!
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I dated one of my best friends for like a month, and I really really loved him this was long time ago.. anyways he broke up with me and that was okay and stuff, and he said that he would always have feelings, and after we broke up we were still friends and we still hung out at school, then he just started being an ass hole? and like now he won't even talk to me anymore. sometimes he will talk now he won't at all. if I say hi on msn he won't even say anything back and hes just being a real dick. he cheated on me to I heard from all his friends.. the most pathetic thing is I still love himl he will ALWAYS be special to me. I loved him alot, he was my best friend I felt like I could tell him anything. and I did. and he did the same with me, and it sucks because Idk what he wants?? why did he do this? is he only nice to me when it suits him?? (link)
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The last thing you said is probably the answer to your question, he's only nice when it suits HIS OWN wants. And that is a prime characteristic of a real jerk.
If he cheated on you, and now he is being this way, my best advice to you would just be to try your hardest to move on, but we all know that is easier said than done. Maybe try to not talk to him for a while, give yourself space to get over him and that situation, maybe talk to other guys if you want to. See what happens. Just know that you are better than that, and you will find someone one day that won't be such a buttwipe. =]
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oh thank you so much :] I have moved on tho. I just ... idk I wil always have feeling for him, but thank you so much! it made me realize you are so right!!
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