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Hi. I'm Andy. My friend told me to join this site, because people could use a guy's opinion. Well, about me... I'm 18. I have no idea what I want to do in life. I sing and play a little guitar. My family is very music-oriented, you could say. I don't know why anyone would want advice from me, but I am a pretty friendly person and am always willing to help. I do not consider myself a great person, I'm definitely not a role model. I drink and smoke. A lot of people say I look like a girl, mainly because of my hair. But I love it. I use a lot of hairspray. I love glam rock and hair metal. My favorite band is Motley Crue.

I'm straight, and I am currently in a relationship though I don't know exactly where it's going. The girl I am seeing is 2 years younger than me, and yes, she is on advicenators too.

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I am a 15/f and lately ive been doubting a few things. I have had this friend who is a guy for about 6 monthes. As soon as we meet we really liked eachother and thought we were in love. Then, he began to talk about other girls, and he told me that he liked this other girl, but he still loved me more. That broke my heart. So things kind of fell apart and since we have just been friends. A week or two ago, I found out that he liked me again and even though I still have feelings for him, I was a little confused about whom I should like, so I told him I would have to sort out a few things. A day or so later my friend and I had a dicussion and it came out that I didn't really trust him. She told him that I didn't like him and he just said "oh, thats okay". A few thing have happend with other people since and now I think I really like him again. I am a nervous that he won't like me for "ditching" him twice and I have no idea how to tell him I still like him. What should I do?

p.s. Sorry about it being so long!

YOU should not feel bad. Technically, you did not ditch him. He was talking about other girls. You got upset. And that's normal. My friend had this problem too. A guy she liked a lot, always talked about other girls but claimed he liked her the most. I guess that's just how guys are. Either you have to put up with that, or find one of those rare one-of-a-kind guys. (hard to do.) If you feel like you can't trust this guy, don't. Try to become his friend again first. Start talking to him. Tell him you're sorry that you sort of cut things off, and that you missed him. (pretty strong hint.) Don't jump into the "I like you again" thing until you have talked to him for a while. Like I said, friends first. Then later when you're talking, just be honest with him, and see what happens from there.

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(Rating: 5) Thankyou sooo much!!! I think Im going to hint it when he calls tonight. Thx!
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