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My ex-friend, Dylana, is so annoying! Somebody on this site said I wasn't a real friend just because I got mad at her for simple things! Do you call copying my every move, stealing, can't take a tiny joke simple things? I don't. Now, all she wants is a freaking pity party that I'm being invited to! I don't like Dylana at all. Everybody takes her side! If you were her friend you'd be blowing a gaskit too! I mean come on! Dylana says she never does anything bad. She does! I mean what the F is up with that?! I get a lot of attention that I don't want. She gets attention she wants, but doesn't deserve. I'm mad because she thinks that a real friend always says yes to her, kisses her freaking feet, does her every biding and what?! She likes to be pitied! I really don't like her, but I don't hate her. Hate is too strong of a word. Anyway, can somebody help me with this girl? I don't want to be her friend because I've already forgiven her... 88 million times! Anything will help! Thanx!
i knw wot you mean...... just be nice to everyone and try to stay as far as possible from her....
ok so be nice: (6) [lol i knw this is wicked but it works] if pity is what she wants then give it to her.... and give her loads of it. speak highly of her and how much th "poor" thing has problems or how the "helpless" sweetheart needed help with math coz she couldn't understand..... blah blah.... be creative in picking emphasized adjectives to describe her wen you talk to people. i knw what i am about to say is mean but its really horrible to have these kinds of "friends" coz they suck in all your identity and you end up looking like a bad guy and who know what else.... plus they lie or exaggerate... in both case you end up messed up. anyway so the reason i am telling you this is the more you say things like that the more people begin to think your nice (and they will actually see the real you despite everything) and the more she will look dumb.... trust me she can only take so much pity. plus people don't want to hang around with some one with to many problems and difficulties... no one wants that kind of responsibility... so she'll find herself with less people she can brainwash.
step two.... don't be too close to her be extra nice (XTREMELY) but don't hang out leave if she is around or if you can't just don't talk to her. (its a plus if you can introduce her to some one who she can become bff with -lol have mercy on her soul) if she gives you that she's upset attitude (these people don't tell you if they are upset from you they just act like drama queens) pretend that you didn't notice a thing and if someone asks tell them you tried opening up to her and seeing whats the matter and she seems really upset (keep it brief and simple and pretend you havn't got a clue about why she's mad if for example you told her you don't want to hang out or something)
3, if she decided to tell people what you did and wotever play her game... say you were sooooo upset that day and that you had flunked something or something and that you didn't hang out because you were sooooo upset.
never tell anyone you dislike her. and never tell anyone what your plan is. blv its the truth for it to look like the truth (the truth being that fate dsnt allow you two to hang out as much and that you drifted even tho you still like her) it'l take time... with me it did since i am the type of person who usually says whats on my mind and can't hide things..... but trust me this is how diplomats deal with people... and its the best why to "keep your enemies closer"
good luck! hope i helped
and glad i am not the only once who witnessed such an annoying type of person...
(Rating: 5) LOL! I'm totally going to try! :D