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Hey actually ive notcied you give some pretty good advice so i decided to hit you with a a problem that i need advice on :]

Kay well for starters, im 14/f and going to high school next year. This guy whom i known since grade 5, his name is Bryan, is acting like a bitch. Im not sure if hes using me or what he wants from me. My friends and i have decided to go to an amusement park next week. He is coming, but he acting like a bitch about it. As in, he wont call my friend to ask for a ride because "hes too busy" but honestly thats just an excuse and hes not taking the time to actually pitch in. It feels like hes only using us for this trip, then going away to camp all summer. He does hang out with us at lunch and after school but still, theres something about him that shows that hes not intrested in us. I dont know if i should uninvite him or just let him use us for the last time because we're not going to see eachother anymore since of different high schools. What should i do?! BTW, everytime i confront him about it he always make excuses and i really dont want to take it from him anymore. Thanks!

well, this guy has some issues to work out with himself before he can even think about going with you. I think you should confront him one more time and tell him that its his last chance to get his story stright. He need to realise that if he doesn't bring this friendship back to a stable basis that he may never see you again. if he really cares he won't let that happen. I think you should watch him very closely and think of all the time he has used you and compare that to how many times he has pulled through. if that doesnt work the personally i would forget him because his excuses won;t make up for his actions no matter how many he makes.

hope I helped

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(Rating: 5) Thank you i will DEF take ur advice
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