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im going to a new school next year, and ive asked alot of questions about that already. everyone is like, just be really outgoing and stuff like that. Well, i am an outgoing person and really crazy.. but im also EXTREMELY shy around people that i am not used too. I know that i can picture myself being outgoing, but then when i am in the situation, i have horrible nerves, like i turn red REALLY EASILY, or i shake, or i just say the wrong thing! its so horrible, but are there any tips to calm the nerves, or just not be so shy, and hesitent?! thank you so much.

you have to believe in your self and your ability to present yourself in a manner that makes you likable. Trust me I'm going into my first year of high school next year and I'm really shy (even around my best friends). Don't let nerves get to you, you have enough to worry about anyway.


Hope i helped.

P.S. if you ever need anything just ask.

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(Rating: 5) Yeah thanks. It kind of seems impossible for nerves not to get to me, but ill at least tell myself not to let them. plus, im going to a new school where i know no one lol. but thanks anyways.
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