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this is long, sorry.

i know this guy named Corbin, & he goes to my church. he'll be in 10th grade, but i'll be in 9th. he's good friends with my brother, because they both like the same music and they were in the church worship band together.

i went down to this church camp for a cookout and concert w/ my church, and he was there. when we were waiting for the concert to start, me and him and like 5 other people from my church were out there. there was this piano, and i started to mess around and play this really pretty song, Clair DeLune. well he's like really good i guess, and he came over to the piano and showed me how i did it wrong, then played the first minute or so perfectly. and i kindof have a weakness for guys who are good on the piano/guitar/ect... and then when he was done, he played "The Luckiest" by Ben Folds, which is my favorite song and it's amazing. that song always makes me cry, so of course i teared up a little, and he gave me a big hug and such.

this concert was three christian rock bands, and the third one is called Our Hearts Hero. they're really good friends with our church and such. when they got on stage, i was in the front row, standing. and corbin came adn stood right behind me. there was other places to go, but idk. so when they started to play a slow and sad song, i looked in this mirror that was on the wall behind the stage, and i saw that corbin was looking at me. i was too scared to turn around, so i just payed attention to the band.

after the concert, corbin came over to me, and we started talking about showchoir and how i was thinkign about quitting, for next year. he's in the band that plays with them, and he was like begging me to do it, and he said "please? do it for me, we'll see eachother every day!"

soo the basic question i have here is that how can i know he likes me? i mean he goes to my church and i see him a lot so i don't want it to be awkward if i ask him and he says no.
i really want himt o like me because he's everything i want in a guy...

thanks in advance.

I am really happy for you, because it sounds like this Corbin is very interested in you. You dont have to ask him, because it sounds to me like he will act like that all on his own. If he is everything you want in a guy, def. talk to him more, get to know him really well, and make sure you stay on his mind. I personally am tryin to work with a church relationship, and you know what the best part about that is? You can easily invite him over for a church dinner, or even better: invite him, with like two other mutual fun chruch friends and go to dinner and a movie (thats what I do with my church friends). It seems like you are gettin your wish, i think he def. has feelings for you. Good luck

Hope I helped

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much
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