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Well I dated this guy for about two weeks before he left for a working vacation in California. He was my first boyfriend, first kiss, and first guy I almost fell in love with. Everything seemed so perfect until he left.
He stopped calling or talking to me online. I thought it was because of the time difference being a pain and he was working a lot and catching up with friends. Well, he was gone for about a week and, long story short, I found out that he was hanging out with this girl and talking about hooking up with her.
I asked him over MySpace if he wanted to date other people while he was gone because I was fine with it considering we'd only dated for about 3 weeks. He said he wasn't dating other people and had no intention of it. Time went by and the girl he was talking to kept IMing me and telling me some stuff. I didn't want to believe her, but it was obvious that he was lying to me.
I made myself miserable and cried for days. I was physically sick over it. I finally broke it off with him because he was 1) ignoring me and 2) acting like everything was fine and 3) treating me like I was the bad guy for not trusting him when it was so obvious he wasn't telling the truth. I wanted to be friends with him still, but it's obvious that's not what he wants.
I thought he was serious about me. Everything he did made it seem like he was REALLY into me, and it's possible that he could have been the whole time. But something happened between him leaving and now and he became a totally different person and is now officially dating this girl.
I'm trying really hard to get over him and I'm not crying and stuff over it anymore because I know it had to be done, but I still can't stop thinking about him and every time I do I get sick to my stomach. It just won't go away and I feel sick all the time unless I'm out with my friends. And I can't do that every day.
How can I get over him? All I want is to stop thinking about him and feel better, physically. Is there anything I can do? Will breaking up always be like this? I'm so consumed with this. Help! (link)
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it will feel like that most of the time hate to say it but its true and it's not very fun either. your always feeling sick and upset and depressed. i was like that after my ex boyfriend schuyler and i gave everything i had to give to him if you know what i mean....but yeah i felt like that for almost a year and i still do i loved him i gave him my heart and all i got in return is pain and suffering so yeah...it sux if you ever want any help with relationships i'm always her ok!!!!!
Katie
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Rating: 4
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Thanks. Very honest, good reality check. The only reason I didn't give a five was because a big part of the question was asking for suggestions on getting over him a little quicker. But thanks anyways.
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