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i'm a simple girl from a small texas town. i love anything country and am very attatched to my texas roots. i love almost every genre of music. rap would have to be my least favorite. i'm a fun loving girl and i have no problem with partying and getting a little wasty. i've had my share of problems so i think i can relate easily with people. i used to be a cheerleader, and i cannot wait to try out again next year for VARSITY ♥. i love to travel and constantly crave the beach. i love competetive swimming. i love baking and cooking. it's pretty much my passion. i love love love christmas. i have never been in a relationship, pretty much because i'm just one of the guys. i'm pretty much a tomboy even though i love shopping, pedicures, gossip, good looking guys, and all things pink. i love my life, and live with no regrets.

advice

17/f

Okay so I'm kind of overweight. I'm not a whale or anything, but I'm big enough to feel really uncomfortable wearing a bathing suit. Today I bought my bathing suit for the summer. I tried it on and I thought it was perfect for me. It's light at the top and it changes to darker shades towards the bottom. The top is a halter and it has a built-in skirt that conceals my less-appealing cures. I thought it look good because it concealed my huge butt while showing off my nice shoulders and neck.

Anyway, I get it home and my mom tells me it's an "old lady bathing suit." I got mad at said, "Well at least I'm not a slut!" Apparently, if it's not a skimpy two piece, it must be an "old lady bathing suit," in her opinion anyway.

What's your opinion on this? Should I get a different suit? I don't want to be laughed at when I go to the beach or to the pool.

i think it sounds like a cute one peice! you shouldn't go buy something that you feel uncomfortable in just because someone else doesn't like it. if you like it, you wear it. you'll get a lot more use out of it and you'll probably feel a lot better wearing it!

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