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ahh so i want this guy to like me.. i want him to chase after me.. but i want to "play hard to get" like i dont wanna be the one always talking to him.. i want him to talk to me.. idk i mean im not just lookin' for attention.. but im soo sick of being the girl who falls head over heels n gets her heart broken.. i wanna be the girl HE falls for. n hopefully things will work out..

You seem a lot like me a couple months ago :). All you have to do is just really have an "i dont care" attitude. with yourself and with him if you just started talking to him. you have to have some control and think "I am not going to be the first one to talk to him today, if he wants to talk to me he will" and if he doesnt after a day don't worry, it will confuse him if he thinks you lost interest ;). that sounds terrible I'm sorry. But when you talk to him keep things short. Make sure you are the one ending the conversation, and if texting he is the last one to text. Don't be a bitch at all, just act sweet and innocent, and look really cute when you do hang out with him, and act friendly when you hang out with him, just be yourself but don't make it seem like you really really want him... and he will chase after you.
i know that seems like a lot. and im sorry if it is. thats what i did, and i got the guy of my dreams to be constantly telling me, "You're my girl"... but if you have been hurt a lot you just need to relax and be patient. you deserve a good guy, and everyone knows it :)


hi.. just checking back.. so did my plan work? :)

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(Rating: 5) wow thanks so much that really helped me a lot!! hopefully it will work.
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