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well, i'm 15 and i'm definitely not having sex before marriage. me and bf are sure of that and are strong with our beliefs.
but for me, i'm little lost on some things. i would just like to be a little bit smarter with the subject.
1st - is ejaculation (for both guys and girls)good or bad? is it gross? does it get on anything?
2nd - what are orgasms for? what do they do? why do people always ask about them?
3rd - what is "popping the cherry"? is it bad? is it something to watch out for? does it hurt?
4th - and when i am married i'm a little afraid to have sex because a lot of people say it can and can't hurt and girls can always can get pregnant. is there anything to really be afraid of? what is there to really watch out for?
5th - how well do condoms work? would condoms work everytime we would have sex?
thanx for answering... (link)
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1: ejaculation isn't bad, it's just the name for when semen comes out of a penis. there is just a point when you are having sex that the man reaches a point where he ejaculates inside of you, or inside the condom. women can ejaculate but it is much less often and it doesn't really matter...don't worry about it. when you have sex there will be discharge in your vagina that acts as a lubricant, but that is different than ejaculating
2: there are many nerve endings in male and female genitals, that is what makes sex so pleasurable. an orgasm is just when someone reaches a point where they are going to "explode". it is just a brief feeling of extreme pleasure that fills your body, which in movies is when women moan and such :)
3: women and girls have a very thin layer of skin that covers a small part of the vaginal opening. when you have sex for the first time, this skin breaks. popping the cherry is just a term used when a girl loses her virginity. It hurts a little, but nothing to be afraid about, it may bleed, but not too much.
4:sex hurts a little at first, but once you do it you will begin to like it. sex is meant to be a pleasurable experience and it is nothing to be afraid of! don't worry about the pain, it is very easy to handle, you may not even feel pain at all! condoms can break or not work, and birth control may not always work. that is why not having sex is the only way to be sure you won't get pregnant. However, once your married you will have sex ofcourse and when you do just talk to your husband first about what your plan would be if you got pregnant by accident. keep using some form of birth control and you will be fine.
5: 99% of the time, there is always a chance it won't work, but usually it does
hope that helped!
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