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yeah, i'm laura.
freshman, 14 almost 15.
idk what else to say..

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Alright so i like this kid and we have been friends for a pretty long time but just this week he broke up with his gf should i ask him out or give him time plus i dont know if he likes me and i like him alot..? Plzzz help

well there's a few things you need to take into consideration here.

1. how long were they going out?
2. were they in love?
3. how far did they go?

if they were going out for more than a month, i would give him some more time. you don't want to be his rebound girl. you want to make sure he's in it for real & not just because he wants to get over his ex-girlfriend. if they weren't going out for that long, you probably don't need to give him much time.

if they were in love, you deffinitley need to give him time. it's not like you can just stop loving someone overnight. that takes some time. if they weren't, he won't need as much time to move on.

if they went farther than kissing, then he needs time. if they didn't really do anything, then they obviously weren't that into each other & you can probably just jump right in. [:

however, you don't know if this guy likes you. i don't think he will right away because he just broke up with his girlfriend. just be more flirty around him & hang out with him more. but don't wait too long to make your move, trust me i've learned from waiting too long.

i would wait about another week. be more flirty with him & hang out with him more like i said before. then, you can either just flat out ask him out or ask one of your friends to ask him how he feels about you. it's your choice but i would just ask him out.


good luck & let me know how it goes. if you need anything else, drop one in my inbox. [:

EDIT;
if you don't want to ruin your friendship with him, just take it slow if you do end up going out. & when it's over, just make sure you stay friends.

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