Hello There;
This is a colunm for anyone with questions on relationship problems, question about their sexuality, questions about their spirituality, advice on talking to parents, and about whether they should, being made homeless by parents, unexpected pregnancies, depression and suicidal thoughts.
I have been, or have had someone very close to me in each of those situations, and can answer questions, provide useful information, and just be there, as a virtual shoulder to cry on!!
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Charming Ashlie xx
E-mail: browneyedwiccan@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Bath, Uk
Occupation: Unemployed
Age: 20
MSN: browneyedwiccan@hotmail.com
Member Since: May 23, 2007
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I had a friend for 16yrs we've been through plenty of ups and downs-i got married in september and my friend had to be the centre of attention the whole day, then she offered to look after my children one night and when she came back told lies and said we were late coming back. She broke up with her bloke and then got back with him- her cousin told me but said i wasnt to know about it !! then i found out she s been doing coke!! she blanked my daughter and she came home really upset so i made the mistake of sending a text saying how shes never been there for me how she kept things from me and why is she being so nasty - thing is now i feel stupid for sending the text as she said its none of my business what she does!! but she butts her nose into mine all the time such a hypocrite !! - i rang her to say sorry and asked what ive done but she doesnt want to know - im really gutted - even though i shouldnt as shes not exactly a mate is she ?!! am i really in the wrong here advice me please (link)
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i think you are wasting your time with this person; all the things you have said equate to her being an attention seeker; a drug addict, and someone you cant trust not to do drugs and look after you kids after 16 years of friendship.
dont apologise when SHE is in the wrong. cut her out and focus your energies on finding new and better friends.
sorry to hear you were let down.
hope you find some better friends,
charming ashlie
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thank you - youve made me feel better - i will definately take your advice
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