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Charming Ashlie xx
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Age: 20
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okay so this boy i like his name is j and i am totally head over heals for him i love him so much and he acts like he likes me to he always flirts with me and always hugging me and he always wants to hang out with me.but you see hes a total player so i don't know if he likes me or is just being you know player-e but the problem is one min. he acts like he loves me and then the next he's talking about his ex./my best friend Emily so it hurts me cuz i get my hopes up like o my god he likes me and then hes like "dose Emily talk about me any more??" and his current girl friend hes going out with only because shes go 38C's and Emily has almost D's so i think he only likes her because she's got huge boobs but I'm not sher? and i don't know whether to forget about him and find a new guy to like or to sit tight and hope one day he gets over his big boob fetish cuz i only got 36B's so i know he don't like me for them. but it extremely complicated and I'm trying to do the best i can to enplane it but I'm so confused about it myself. so can some one pleas help me decide what to do.
thanks in advance and i am sooo sorry to have written a book but i need help and I'm so confused (link)
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Unfortunately some guys are idiots. Its a really sad fact, one that we shouldnt have to live with, but we do put up with it, dont we?!
Forget this guy, i know you dont want to, and your still lost in the false hope, and the spending time with him because his behaviour is confusing.
You have to break it down into facts;
You know he is a player
You know he has a current girlfriend
You know he still likes your friend
You know he is into big boobs, and you know you havent got them
You have nothing to offer except for your lovely personality, probably attractive look, but he is too imatture to see that.
It wont work; and its making you confused and unhappy; so forget him.
Stop spending as much time with him, and start spending time with guys that are nice, available, and most importantly; think your a hot momma!!
Charming Ashlie xx
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thanks a bunch your advice was awesome and funny!! so thanks!
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