My name is Chelsea, I'm 17 & a senior in high school. I like giving advice and helping people in general. I have the most experience in areas like family issues, dealing with friends and losing friends, pregnancy scares, and moving. I've made mistakes and learned from them. That's where my experience comes from. So why not help someone in the same situation that you've already been in? I'll try to do just that, and if you have a question don't hesitate to ask!
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ok i have this friend we will call her A ok so this friend of mine i like she's really cool and all but then she's kinda a whore and i dont really like what she's been doing i mean i understand some people like doing stuff like that very often but i mean she is like obsessed with guys everytime we are hanging out shes like we need boys every single time and it kinda pisses me off not to mention my friend D like this one guy named Jordan and so A and D were gonna hangout with jordan and his friend Derek and they are both pot smokers anywho they wanted to 3 way with A now D likes Jordan so i told A she cant do anything with them and A doesnt like either of them but she said they are gonna be watching a movie and that something's gonna happen during this movie but D will be there so i am so confused right now i mean i like A but she's kinda a whore and i dont really like it how she's do something with any guy if they ask her to it's kinda pathetic to me so what should i do any advice for this sorry it was long but thanks in advance (link)
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If she tries to invite guys just tell her you really want a girls night. And when she tries to talk about them all the time maybe try and casually change the subject. My best friend was exactly like this, and I was in your place, so I know what it's like.
Whatever you do, don't just ditch her because you'll regret it in the long run, trust me.
If you do think you're jealous of her, just try and focus on the good things about you. Everyone has good qualities to them and you aren't and less of what she is. So just realize that you are your own person. Maybe she feels the need to be in a relationship or feel like she has someone who loves her all the time, some people are like that and some people aren't. There are good qualities to everyone, and you could be doing what she's doing if you really wanted to, you guys are just two different people.
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ok well i kinda discovered that i could just be jealous her i mean i dont really like what she's doing but i know if i were as pretty and as skinny as her i'd prolly be doing the exact same thing so how do i stop being jealous if i am??? any suggestions
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