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i'm very happy in my marriage,i love my wife and enjoy her companionship,we practically do everything together,she's very understanding, but sometimes she has her mood swings which i know thats normal for anybody to have sometimes, i might ask her a question for example(what are you doing?or babes whats that and she answers me very seriously or ruff.
this is my question how do i know when my wife is responding to me ruff or sarcastically so i wouldnt respond harshly thinking that shes arguing with me when she's not?
every human is an island....... or at least thats what pater says in his da vinci book..... every human is an island... you'll never be able to understand anyone whole and completly including your wife who should be that closest thing to you. so i would say calm down and when she does answer you that way ignore and go occupy yourself with something else until you AND her cool down and then go back and ask her nicely about her day and what is going on (don't be SO direct she may just push you back and not answer) find out what's bothering her and see if you can solve it or talk about it or something... ask her why she reacted the way she did and tell her how you feel about it..... sometimes it maybe that it's just her day and thats how she reacts to things or maybe it's something that is bothering her and she doesn't know how to deal with it. or maybe it could be something you did... it could be a million things so you should find out. if there is nothing... then you should point out how her behavior bothers you.... you guys should be able to discus things openly... thats what brings islands together... :))))
gooluck!
(Rating: 5) Thanks alot you helpled alot,your answer was very encouraging. Take care!