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Hey, I'm Anthony. I am a sophmore in high school. I play the accordion, and music is my passion. I also love photography. I'm here mainly because people tell me I give great advice, and sometimes I need a little too. Thanks. Hope I can help you.

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15/f. since your a guy i thought i'd ask you for your opinion on this :]

there is this guy in the grade below me that i really like. my one friend in his grade tells me all the time that he likes me. and then on friday we had a school field trip and he was in my group and we sat next to each other for everything and 3 people even asked if we were gf & bf. like he always suttely compliments me, sits next to me, looks for me at school in hallways or assemblys, and is just extremely nice.

so i'm sure your thinking okay everything sounds good, now why don't you ask him out. well heres the problem, actually its a BIG problem. he has a girlfriend. but she is in my grade at a different school so i haven't met her before. now i know its mean to hope that they break up so i can have him, but i have a hard time not wanting that. plus idk if they even hang out much anymore because he is always hanging out with me and my other friends.

so what can i do? he acts like he likes me but he has a gf?

THANKS SO MUCH :]
i've asked girls this before, but i wanted a guy's take on this.

Hi. I know almost exactly the position you are in, just switch the positions. I have really liked this girl for a while, but she likes a different guy. But we are like perfect together and we're always flirting and w.e.. But back to your question...I would suggest telling him how you feel, because I know if i was in his position, I would respect the fact that you laid out your feelings, and you told him how you felt. Even though he has a girlfriend, he is going to have to make a choice. As I said, if I was in his shoes and I had a girlfriend but liked you, and you told me that you liked me, then I would greatly respect you and think even better of you because you stepped up and even though I have a girlfriend, you still were shy about your feelings. So thats what I suggest to do, I would just sit down with him, and have a good heart to heart talk, start off with the basics, like hi, how was your day, and that stuff. But, then go to like how is your girlfriend, and then be like, I really need to get something off of my chest and if you dont feel the same way, then thats ok, but I still wanna be friends. Be nice about it and dont jump right in and say I like you. Also, it isnt wrong for you to want him to break up with his gf for you, that is how you know that your feelings are real, and that you arent just infatuated with him.

So I hope I've helped!! Good Luck!

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much!
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