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E-mail: Monica_Butterfly9109@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Member Since: May 11, 2007
Answers: 5
Last Update: September 18, 2007
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Hey. I'm thirteen, female. Don't get me wrong, I despize labels more than anything in the world, and I try not to use them, but for this question, I think they're the only way someone could understand. I used to be really really really 'preppy'. And like I only got clothes from Abercrombie and Hollister, and I was literally afraid of hot topic. And I labeled everyone and I never wore black, always pink. Now, I really like the 'emo' stuff, rather than the 'prep' stuff. See, I tried just wearing what I like, and doing what I like, ect. But, then I got in a HUGE fight with like 4 people and all of them told me I was 'fake' and a 'poser' when I was just doing what I wanted, and they told me to be myself, when finally, I was. I don't know what to do anymore. I don't like preppy stuff anymore, but everytime put an 'emo' quote in my profile, my friend always copy&pastes it and asks me about it, like, 'who's that to' or something, you know, just giving me a hard time about it. She thinks she's so much 'smarter' than me becuas she's in 8th grade and I'm in 7th. I really don't know what to do anymore. Please help me, I do rate. (link)
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You are young and still searching for who you are. Just because you dress in different things or hang with different people does not make you a wannabe. You are simply just having a hard time finding the inner you. And as for your friend, just because she is one grade above you does not mean she is smarter and she knows more than you, just ignore her comments and when she can see you have no interest in what she says she'll soon get tired of talking when she knows you're not listening.>post a comment of some sort of feedback please!
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Thank you soo much. I was starting to get really paranid and believe her comments becuase I had no further explanation, but now I feel a lot better :].
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