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I'm a 19 yr old mainly agnostic ex philosophy student with rather strong views about a lot of things. I'm very liberal, love the diversity I live in in London and hate that America hasn't separated church from state.
I'm engaged to the love of my life, but agree it is a little bizarre to get engaged at 18.
I'm confident, quite literally crazy, caring and crippled. My manual wheelchair is called Sebastian and he gets scared when he goes too fast, my electric is called Jermaine (after the Flight of the Conchords character) and he really does not like ice.
I can read Braille and I know basic sign language because I believe everyone should be given equal chances. I dislike it that money doesn't have Braille on it.
I'll do my best to help out with your situations, I've been in and seen many a family conflict, I've had my fair share or love life crises, I've had about every illness known to man (could tell you a lot of amusing stories about psychiatric wards) and I'm "The Queen of Hair Dye" so hopefully I'll have some idea about advice. If it looks like I don't give lots of advice, it's because I only advise on things I know about. I also detest poor spelling and grammar so although having dyslexia makes me a bit hypocritical about this.

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Well my friend recently went to a gynecologist and was tested for endometrio cancer and cervical cancer. They werent quite sure if she had it so they sent the information out and she will find out in ten days. But for 1 month I have been bleeding and my period doesn't ever last that long, so now I'm worried I have the cancer too. First off, I feel I might have got it because me and my friend shared a dildo one night, I know bad idea, but we weren't thinking. Is cervical or endometrio cancer transferable, and if so does anyone think I could have gotten it from that? I don't really want to go get checked cause I'm terrified of doctors. So if anyone has any information I would love to know, or any opinons, and adivce would be helpful too. Thanks and please hurry I'm scared.

You can't have caught cancer from sharing a dildo but having a period for a month can be a sign of something wrong, and even if its not it could cause something going wrong. I had a period for about a month and it had no underlying cause but I had to see the doctor and they fixed it and they also checked it hadnt caused anything else, like low haemaglobin or iron levels which are very important yet simple to sort out. Therefore my best advice is to go to the doctor however much you are scared, you need to get checked out love.
Take care xxx

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