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Q: Hi im 13/f and i thought you would be a good person to ask a question to:)

Well at first i really liked my crush and thought he liked me too. he would talk to me all the time, flirt, stare at me, ect. and this all started in Nov. then about last month my friend said that she told him so i got all scared and didnt want to talk to him because o he doesnt like me and i made a fool out of myself. well anyways all of a sudden he started talk to me. he would always try to since i stopped talking to him. he tried to sit with me(this all happened in one day), he was flirting, and then he was messing with me at lunch and at the end of the day al the stuff we do. So things went back to normal and then i decided that things went better if i didnt talk to him first all the time and playing hard to get and i still do but its kinda a reaction (ill get to that soon). so then on he would always talk to me first and we would stare everyso often and flirt ect. then about last week i found out his friends finally convinced him to ask out this girl because he liked her. my friend and i were walking up the stairs and all the girls came up to talk to himand were like, "O she said yes!!" and he was really quiet about it. then they all left and once i heard everything i was completely filled with rage! he started to quicken his steps so he could talk to me(he does that alot.) he was like, "Hi Brianna (from Behind)." i didnt bother to turn around and respond. so he kept going. "Brianna? dont you wanna talk to me?" i said no. he asked what did he do ect and i just didnt want to talk to him. he hurried to get his stuff and left his friends and was chasing after me to talk to me. he was asking,"What did i do, i didnt even mock you today (this thing he does to me. flirty thing only to me suprisingly). i just said dont talk to me, dont bug me ect. after that things havent been the same. i cant get myself to talk to him. or its just not the same. he chased me the next day and asked me what was up the other day and i said i was just tired. then i said sorry and we started flirting but its jsut wasnt the same you know. i watch him and his so called "Girlfriend" and they never even talk. they dont do anything. then last Thursday i kinda experimented and went in the same direction he was and walked infront of him so he could see me and all of a sudden i heard his footsteps and he was like flying down the steps and i turned around and he was cutting through people and then the next minute he was right there and we were talking. then the next day he did the exact same thing except that time he just came up to me and just smiled at me and i asked what was the smile for and he started walking backwards to his class smiling at me. so does he like me??
It sounds like he likes you alot. WEll i would ask him about his girlfriend and see if he actually likes you because it seems like he is just dating her to have someone to date and because his friends have been coaxing him to date her. Since your friend told him you liked him and then he started talking to you more it seems like he was happy about it and likes you too. Just talk to him some more and just see where it goes thats all i can say really. Be friends with him and flirt like you are now. it may be a little while before he confesses that he likes you but its ok. it will be worth the patients. And i know because i have horrible patients with guys. But Even though he has a girl friend now doesnt mean they will be together forever. and it looks like the more you are friends with him when they break up you will be right there for him. HOpe i helped.

Courtney.

you helped a bunch! You made everything so clear! thanks:)

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Courtney19
Hi I'm Courtney. I Love awnsering people questions and alot of my friends call me the therapist. But besides that my life practically evolves around photography and kayaking. I'm 16 years old and bound ready for life. I have had my share of heart ache and my share of drama. But i am more forgiving than most hard core christians. My family is difficult and when i say i know what you mean i truthfully do. I have been in a lot of hard places and have thought i was never going to get out and sometimes i think again i never will. I am open to everyone and will not push you away. I am not judgemental just because everyone judges me on the fact that my hair is about a inch long. I live in a very small town whith very ignorant people so i guess thats why i am the way i am. If you would like to talk i am always on myspace. www.myspace.com/c419420

thanks Courtney

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