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Last Update: November 27, 2007
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So last year in an extracurricular, I met this girl named Paige. We instantly became best friends. We shared everything and her family accepted me like one of their own daughters.
This year, Paige has a boyfriend, Joey. Joey and I don't get along...at all. She, more and more, has chosen him over me. Like, at lunch, I'll go to talk to her and she'll be talking to him, and then won't talk to me.
I am realtively popular, so I have other friends, but this is the first person that I talked about boys with. The first person I really met in high school. (We're sophomores now, both 15.)
I basically told her all of this, and we had a conversation last night about not making enemies and why I won't be mean to her enemies (They aren't my problem and I don't want drama.), and she told her boyfriend everything. I assumed that everything that I've told her was in confidence, and it had been until now.
She has changed. I am taking her on vacation with me this weekend to San Diego, and since she won't be with her boyfriend, I assume that we will get along well, but I don't know if I should just leave her alone and wait for them to break up, (though they've been dating a year this August) or put extra effort into this friendship.
I made her a notebook and it's gorgeous and it's for us to write notes in, and I've written to her, and she hasn't been writing back.
I generally get along with people's parents, and I talk to her mom now instead of her on AIM and stuff. It's going to be awkward tonight.
Is she trying to hint that she doesn't want to be friends anymore? Am I overreacting?
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no shes not trying to hint that she doestn wanna be friends or anythign like that , taking a wild guess but i guess one she hasnt had a lot of b/f's and 2 this is her longest one , bc she doesnt no how to balance friendships and boyfriends , bc shes chosing him over you because she doenst want to lose him , and shes afraid taht if she talks to you and not him they'll break up , so dont worry about it , it'll get better in time she'll learn how to balance the two , just talk to her more about this and dont give up on her.
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Rating: 4
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Would have been a 5 had you typed correctly. Thanks.
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