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Q: 15/female. My life is great. I have everything I could ever need, and a small group of friends that I could tell ANYTHING to. My parents love me, and 99% of my family is beyond incredible, but sometimes I get too overwhelmed. I'm an only child, and my parents expect a LOT out of me. If I don't have straight high-A averages, I get privleges taken away because "I can do better" and I KNOW that they're right. I always LOVED school, and don't get me wrong, I still do, usually. But now that I'm in highschool there's more drama to deal with, and teachers are more eccentric, for lack of a better word. Sometimes it's too much to deal with. My mother attempting suicide last year was essentially my breaking point. She's got that worked out (nasty hospital screw-up and severe allergic reaction led to a decrease in serotonin; she's fine now) but nowadays I think constantly that something even worse will happen not just to her, but to many people I care about.


Sorry that was so long, but as you can see I really need to work some things out. Would it be weird to go to a therapist just ONCE, to have someone else to talk to, or would I be forced to go nine thousand times?
I have almost been in your shoes before. I am also a only child and am expected to make good grades and over all be a good child. My dad commited suicide when i was 13, I am now 16 and my mom is getting remarried. But I didnt think i needed therapy. When infact i did. Not all of the time just some of the time. Most of the time it was the normal run of the mill nodding and "understanding" that therapist do. But afew times i really let loose and it helped alot. therapist really try to connect with you usually without "trying to be your friend" thats usually what school counclers try to do. You will not be forced to sign for a year of therapy or anything i like that. You just pay for the time you are there and if you think you would like to come back again then go. Dont be afraid of it. Its truly nothing to be ashamed of. Especially if you think it will help.

Sorry its long.

thanks so much. I think I might make an appointment! =]

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Courtney19
Hi I'm Courtney. I Love awnsering people questions and alot of my friends call me the therapist. But besides that my life practically evolves around photography and kayaking. I'm 16 years old and bound ready for life. I have had my share of heart ache and my share of drama. But i am more forgiving than most hard core christians. My family is difficult and when i say i know what you mean i truthfully do. I have been in a lot of hard places and have thought i was never going to get out and sometimes i think again i never will. I am open to everyone and will not push you away. I am not judgemental just because everyone judges me on the fact that my hair is about a inch long. I live in a very small town whith very ignorant people so i guess thats why i am the way i am. If you would like to talk i am always on myspace. www.myspace.com/c419420

thanks Courtney

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