Hello everyone! My name is Lisa, I'm 15. I'm a freshman and I go to public school. I love to sing, read, watch tv, and I'm a big fan of Harry Potter. Most of my freinds come to me for advice because they know that they can depend on me and just because I am young does not mean I cant answer questions from older people who seek advice so please ask away!
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im just rele... not in a good mood. im pretty upset and i need some1 to talk to. i just feel like shit and like i shouldnt be. my whole problem is i wear my heart on my sleeve and ive already tried to cut it off but that didnt work. i just fall for people way to easy and then they never like me for anything than just a friend. tonight i went to a play to watch the girl i liek perform cuz lastngiht she invited me and i decided i would come again. well lastnight i couldnt ifnd her and tonight i told her after the play to come find me and i would be sitting where i was before. well i waited for 5 minuites then found one of my other frineds and talked to her until she helped me find the other girl. she was talking to and upperclassmen (btw, im a freshman and the girl i liek is a freshman) and it really hurt me inside to see her with him cuse it is obvious tht she probubly likes him and he probubly likes her only for her body. im tryin to hold back tears while writing this cuz my mom is downstairs and if i cry she knows something is wrong. this spring break has completely sucked for me. ive already thought of giving up on everything. i just feel so unloved and its got me depressed and its slowly killing me. (link)
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Dear Reader,
I know how it is, trust me, I do too but I try not to.
When you meet a girl, dont automatically say, "oh i like her," or dont like her because she's cute or something. Go deeper then that. Get to know her, talk to her be her FRIEND first. Just be a friend first before you do anything else. If you then like her for who she is after you've gotten to know her, then starting to like her is alright then because you know that underneath the prettyness she has personality. Don't take girls liking other guys too seriously, I know it hurts, trust me, Iknow, but try not to. If you do everytime it'll get you more and more depressed. I'm a freshman if it helps and I know how it is. You seem like a great guy and if you wait until maybe your sophmore year you'll find that girls change over the summer and its like they're new again. Give it time. I think with all the heartache that you're going through you just need a break. You seem really nice and really caring if you went to her preformance. The guy friend I'm intrested in didnt even do that for me, so you seem really cool.
Give it time, give yourself room, and you'll find someone. good luck, let me know how things go and i hope i helped.
Sincerly,
Lisa
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i met her at the beginnign of second semester so ive known her for like at least 3 months so its not just and automatic "i like her" thing.
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