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Member Since: April 4, 2007
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Last Update: April 14, 2007
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Im 14 years old and turning 15 soon. I'm going to high school next year.
I'm fully grown with big boobs and I got my period in 5th grade which made me want to question whether or not I was growing anymore because I heard that if you have had your period for more than 2 yrs, you basically stopped growing.
I went to the doctor and I found out that I'm not growing anymore. I'm not even 5 feet! I'm 4'11. "I was one inch away from being a legal midget? My "friends" make fun of me saying that.
There isnt a day that goes by that I dont hear that I'm short. I know it shouldnt bother and it doesnt all the time, but hearing it all the time can make me feel bad, you know? I tell them all the time to stop and that you know it hurts but maybe that wasnt a good idea since now they know that makes me feel bad?
I should start wearing heels right? One problem! No shoe store has my size because the regular size is 6 and that's too big for me :( So.. I dont know what to do. Isnt getting customized shoes is expensive? Do any places have size 5 for women?
What should I do? It's probably not that big of a deal but I just found out so I'm still sensitive about the subject and I already tried letting my friends and family know that it bothers me but nothing has changed! Please help! =)
P.s. I'm sorry for it being long but i would really appreciate anyone's help!

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hey,I can really relat,but the other way around!I'm really really really tall,i'm only 14 (and a girl) and am 6 foot.It's totally embarassing so i get that.Sometimes i can't get shoes to :S I mean it's not that easy to fine size 11 :S .I get called tall all the time and it buggs me aswell.I just try to ignore it and if it's really botering me,i'll ask the person why they said that,i mean starte the obvious!Yeah I'm tall so what!?And I'll tell them that people say that to me all the time and francly don't need to hear that again.(thankfully i'm also a redhead so thats a perfect excuse on why i have been so bitchy to them :P) Anyways to sum up,don't let it bother you,thats just the way you are and to hell anyone that bothers you about it!



Hope I helped! :)


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Thanks :) Haha so we're basically opposite but the same in a way. Lol.




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