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ahh , 0k me and my b0yfriend have been g0ing 0ut f0r a m0nth . and its great bascilyyy ..
well we have an 0pen relationship , where we tell each 0ther everyy , well in the summer he REALLY liked my friend ashley [ like bef0re we started hanging ] she was like his first l0ve . well he really really liekd her and she screwed him 0ver s0 badley and he g0t raely hurt . tonight we was talkin and i was like wat did it feel like t0 be in l0ve and he said like she was the 0nly pers0n that mattered and all this 0ther shit . well i was like are y0u ever g0nna be able t0 like me like y0u did ashley , he said im really trying its just s0 hard t0 trust girls after her . s0 h0w d0 i get him t0 trust me with 0ut havin his gaurd up ? (link)
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Hey...the best advice I can give you is forget this shit and just concentrate on loving him like you do... I have gone through the same thing and I used to think about it so much it used to drive me crazy !! But then I just thought over and realised that it's of no use... All I can do his divert all his attention from 'the other girl' and love and care for him so much that he forgets her or atleast considers her unimportant. Do stuff for him to let him know that he matters... Like make cards or write poems,letters...You dont really need an occasion to show what you feel for him... And plus you have a long way to go...His wounds are fresh from his previous experience...You have to heal them with your love and time...
Best Of Luck sweetie, xxxxx DaRkSiDe89 xxxxx
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