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13/f. Im not sure how I like my friend. As in bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then he started saying bffs so I did to because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party last night. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and my ?bff?. I would mainly go with him. And we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and showing me off and when we separated he was looking for me and worried? But im the kind of gothic violent rough girl and hes the kind of prepy nice guy. Other guys I used to like and they liked me would be rough im rough to everyone also. But hes to nice. Is that what it should be like. But now hes been wearin a lot of black and acting depressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. And my other bff and her bf broke up that night so I went with her. So he knew so he went to get him. Then we went around me my bff(my ?bff or bf?) and my other bff (she just broke up). And he was talking to her about something ‘top secret’. later on she(bff he was talking to) started truth or dare. And it started out just my 5 bffs and him(bff) and another guy. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss like making out or something. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think about and write about.
i really need help soon. im gona see him again tomarrow in one class only. it will be so okward. if i dont do it tomarrow it will probly never happen between us. we tell eachother alot of stuff and we both knew or thought before the party that we liked eachother. and can you answer all my questions. please!!!!.
Do I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How does he like me?
What should I do? What should he do?
How do you kiss? Ive never had a bf! But I turn down a lot of guys.
how would i tell my mom?
How do I change what happened?
What else should I do?
~randomgrl777~

okay was a long question but hey i dont really mind, okay lets start of with you liking him as a boyfriend of best friend i honestly think that only you can figure that out by yourself what do you see him more as? from my point of view it seems like you feel like he is your best friend only because you can talk to him about anything but at the same time he has qualities a boyfriend has and perhaps try talking to him about how you feel about him tell him you were a bit to shy and scared to admit you liked him more than a friend and just await for his reply from what it sounds like it seems that he likes you more than a friend still and kissing kind of just comes naturally aslong as you dont worry too much about it i know the kissing answer will sound like many others but its true and just a tip do not put lip gloss or anything like that on your lips it will be a wet kiss but i dont meen leave them dry
im sure your mum will understand i know for a fact parents like there child to tell them stuff so just sit with her and open up to her and tell her you really like him and hes a decent guy and everything just basically tell her how you feel about it and about the gothic thing im pretty much the same im kind of emo though but i like all sorts of guys maybe hes dressing that way to get your attension? he might think thats the kind of guys your into or maybe hes just taken an interest in it if you have any other question what so ever just ask me il always answer as soon as i can and try my best
i hope i helped and much luck x

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(Rating: 5) thanks it helpd alot and we talk about dating and us and other people but we do nothing
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