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i'm megan. i like to be different. my name, ibettershakethis, comes from high school musical ;]

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so im a sophmore girl and all be 16 soon all my friends have gone pretty far with a boy and well me, i havnt. when my friends ask me how far i have gone im kind of ashamed of the truth so i exagerate the truth a little, well.......a lot!so they all think im something im not. what should i do, i'll sound like an idiot if im just like "just kidding i havnt gone that far". so a little help please?
and i have had the chance to go further but im scared of not doing something right or if the boy thinks im dumb or if i do something tsupid so yeah

i am in the same boat, girl. i'm 15 and i'm a sophomore. the most i've done is kiss but do i care? hell no. if someone is willing to go that extra mile and judge you by your experience, they're not worth it. when someone asks me how far i've been with a guy i tell them "what does it matter to you? will you feel better about yourself if i tell you? will you be jealous if i tell you? why do you care?". okay i've only said that once, and in a bad case, but you get what i mean. just don't do anything because everyone else is doing it. seriously. my friend wanted to have a boyfriend just to have a boyfriend and i thought it was the biggest mistake of her life. this guy ended up cheating on her and i told her that it was karma. its not about how much experience you have, its about the purpose of each experience. make each experience you have meaningful and don't worry about how many experiences you have. quality not quantity, baby ;)

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