hi peoplez! im alorra, if u need advice on anything, like boys, girls, school, work, or anything else, dont be afarid to ask me, ill give you a good answer to just about any question.
thoughts for the day: some people are only alive because its illegal to shoot them.
i dont suffer from insanity, i enjoy it.
earth is the insane asylum of the universe.
Most important: Dont cry over someone who wont cry over you.
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Location: Fantasy Land
Member Since: July 16, 2006
Answers: 55
Last Update: August 3, 2010
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I've always had quite a few friends and people generally are quite nice, and that was until I started going out on Friday nights.
There are a group of kids and thier main intention is to start trouble, its going too far to the extent a girl was punched by a 18yr old boy twice her size. The comments never used to affect me and I didn't care if they didn't like the way I dressed or the music I liked. But now its like I'm too scared to go out, everywhere I go I have groups of kids following me, insulting me, threatening me. It's just getting to be too much.
I don't know what to do. I've told people, even been in contact with the local police, but things just do not get better.
Suddenly now all the insults affect me, they call me fat so I diet, they don't like my hair so I cut it. I'm starting to do all sorts of things just to fit in, something I never thought I would do.
What should I do before I lose my identity completly? Or even worse end up beaten up?
I am really scared and I hate going anywhere, everywhere I go I have trouble and I just don't know where to turn. I came on here hoping to find someone who has been through the same. Any advice on sorting this situation.
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ok, for the insults, just blow them off. stop listening to them, what do you care what they think, they sound like a bunch of lowlife losers anyway. think of it this way, they are toe sluge, they don't exist, their nothing to you. when they say something stupid just think to yourself, someday they'll be working at a gas station part time, and you'll be successful. you just have to be self confident enough not to let all their b/s bother you. as for being afriad to go out, thats a different story. when you go out always try to go with friends, there is strength in numbers. (this is true if your on a date w/ just u and ur guy too. guys are the best to go places with, even if their just friends. but girls are good to, as long as your with someone.) if you get desprate, enroll in some self defence classes. but know that you should never fight unless you are in serious trouble (i.e. backed into a corner, cant get away, and no one to help you) it also helpes to go to public places, your less likely to get hurt in a public place with lots of people around.
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Thanks for the advice.
You have given me alot to think about.
And lots of ways to solve my problem.
Thank you SO much.
xx
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