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theres a guy who i've been inlove with for about 2 years since we've went out then broken up. he totally ignored me for half a year and i was depressed pretty much. then we became friends with benifits. it was suppost to be secret but i told and some word got out, he basically hated me for 2 months. then he would tell me he wanted to be friends with benifits. this went on and off threw out april threw october in 2006. we had sex the first time over summer then he said he never should have because he loved someone else. he never had feelings for me just lust, but i had feelings for him (stupid i know).. i just cant say no to him. then when had amazing sex in october and he said we had to stop bc he was inlove with someone else. it hurt. for around 5 monthes i tried to forget about him. we never talked. then a week ago we started talking again and it seemed like we were normal friends. now we plan on having sex another time soon because we can't stop lusting over each other. i know he likes someone else and this little secrect hookup has to end sometime like before, i just don't know what i should do.. have sex with him or just keep putting it off and avioding him. i really don't know if i love him but i just feel a strong feeling towards him and its so intense. and when we'd hook up he seemed not even to care but then when we would finally talk about what we did he would admit a bunch of stuff. he can't show feelings at all. im so sorry this is confusing, but i just need comfort. i don't want to tell anyone else about this whole issue because its my responsiblity to make sure no one finds out. i mean if everone knows ive done it 3 times before i was even 14 they'd never stop talking about me. just please help (link)
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hello .
im very sorry to hear about this . and i am also sorry but i must tell you the truth .
well since he is your ex , try not to get involved with him . i dont believe you are or were in love with him . it might have just been lust like you said . but i dont know your emotions . but if he is involved in another girl , then dont get involved with that drama . i think he is just using you for sex . dont fall in that trap . you must be too pretty and too nice to get your heart broken like that ... all i am going to tell you is , you should move on and find someone you truly love . you will feel much better about yourself .
and also try not to tell anyone that you have had sex , because they might go around calling you like a dirty [whore , slut , etc .] .
you are a very smart girl .
good luck
and if you need anything
dont be afraid to ask
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