Hi. My name is Brittany and I am 20 years old. Had quite a few experiences in life so I hope I am able to give some good advice!
Member Since: February 25, 2007
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Last Update: March 21, 2007
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There is this girl on my bus and nobody really talks to her or hangs out with her but noone thinks shes a freak. She used to be one of my really good friends but we just stopped hanging out. I feel bad because shes always lonley but i dont want her to think im one of her really good friends because i dont want to be and she keeps writing about the past and what not. So should i talk to her on the bus? just so she has someone to talk to or should i just not so she doesnt get the idea that i want to be her best Friend again? (link)
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so if there isn't anything wrong with her, then why don't you want to be her friend again? She might be going through something right now that she really needs someone to talk to and since you used to be friends she feels like you would be someone to confide in. But to answer your question, talking to her doesn't make her your new best buddy but it probably would help her to feel a little better. The next time you are on the bus, maybe stop to chat with her for a few minutes, or at school maybe you can introduce her to someone else that might actually want to be a good friend with her. She's probably a really great person, but not as outgoing as most, so to have someone notice she exists would probably help her self esteem to help her come out of this shell she is hiding in.
Good luck!
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