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16/f the problem is everytime i look at my boyfriend i smile. there is no whipping the smile off my face. i went to talk to him abuot something important today that has been bothering me.. that things weren't the way it used to be.. every since the third time we had sex.. he just doesn't call me as much and we don't talk as much... i said to him 'sometimes i just wish you would call me just to say hi' and i smiled. i told him i was trying to be serious.. but i couldn't help but smile. i asked him if he still wanted to be together and he said 'i guess' wtf? i think he was just nervious because he thought i was going to dump him or somethingg
so i guess my question is.. i am in love with him no doubt about it.. i want everything to work out but he never thinks i'm serious (he did realize i was serious today though when i looked at him) but whenever we talk i always forget what i really wanted to say and what was bothering me. so how can i better my relationship? (i never told him i loved him because i kno it will push him away)
alsooo. he has a lifetime grudge against the female race. we never faught but he doens't treat me like his girlfriend unless it's just us. =/ (link)
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well it seems to me that you do love him and about him saying i guess nervous or not thats not the right thing to say some how you need to find a way to talk to him and tell he what your writing to us if you cant do it to his face than write it a letter if saying i love you pushes him away than eventally hes going to push you away anyway so be completly honest and tell him that you understand where hes coming from but now he has to understand where your coming from you know you should tell him to start treating you like a gurlfriend and to take you seriously you know the relationship is never going to work if your afriad of him pushing you away you know what i mean i hope ihelped good luck and sorry if i confused you my inbox is always open if you need help
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