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Q: I was madly in love with my exboyfriend whom I've been dating for a year and 2 months and till this day I am still unsure why we broke up. However, about 3-5 days later I meet my other exboyfriend and he is now my current boyfriend and we've been going out for almost two years by the end of this month. I love them both very much and I hurt my current boyfriend alot because I always think about my exboyfriend. The thing is I cannot choose who I want to be with..these two are complete opposites...and I dont know why I love them both very much..my ex still loves me as much as he did and I love him to...my boyfriend loves me very much and I love him to...I just can't decide on whom I want to be with...they both love me and take care of me very well...my boyfriend is very career oriented while my ex is very love oriented..i love them both..but what should i do? whom should I choose? I can't explain everything in this paragraph but based on the situation that I am in love with both these guys..whom should I choose? my ex or my boyfriend?
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I am 26 and divorced. I was married for 6 years and there was not one day that went by I did not think of my highschool sweetheart. We broke up in highschool and got back together several times. When I met my ex husband I was still not over my highschool sweetheart but new we couldn't be together because he did not want what I wanted at the time...a family. I loved my ex husband very much but in the back of my mind always wondered what if? Well my ex and I got a divorce because of several things A: I was not happy and because after 5 years still had a place in my heart that was not filled. After my divorce my high school sweetheart and I got back together and finally we fullfilled our what if's. Not knowing he had felt the same way for all those years we got a long in the beginning but with me having 2 kids with my ex it was very hard for him and we went our seperate ways. The point of my story is this...follow your heart. Don't waste time on what you "think" is best for your future or you won't be happy. If you think about your exboyfriend everyday then you need to make sure you finish that part of your life before you move on to another part. Please follow what your heart and gut are telling you and remember "everything happens for a reason". You may not know why right now but one day it will hit you like a rock and you will be like oh that is why that went that way. I was able to move on and now am in Love with a wonderful man and have no doubts of my past anymore. Good luck with watever way you choose.
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thank you very much for your answer based on your experience...well its been a few months now..but i know that im not in love with my ex boyfriend anymore...however, i have a new situation..lol..I have been seeing this other guy that makes me feel very happy and I can't stop thinking of him...my boyfriend and I are kind of seperated, so I am not actually cheating on him...but we did not lay down the rules that we are allowed to see other people...im trying to listen to my heart right now...but I dont know how..is it what makes me happy at the moment? or who I think about? or what? I put myself in deep trouble...I dont know what to do
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Gender: Female Location: Idaho Occupation: Pharmacy Services Age: 26 Member Since: May 17, 2007 Answers: 1 Last Update: May 18, 2007 Visitors: 627
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