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1/14 okay so my birthday is in august im want to have a kick ass house party. (yes it will be boy girl... duh. :))

lets just say people expect a lot out of my parties, so it cant be lame. but i suuuck at planning anything.

also, i really dont want to spend a fortune on this party. i can spend some, but dont say anything like "GET AKON TO PREFORM!" cause i dont have that kind of budget. (:

i would really appreciate any or all of these questions answered. thank you soo much in advance.



(im okay with music, so dont worry about that.


-any good party ideas about
+food
+games
+other things to do
+entertainment
+unique invitations
+formal informal
+gift bags? if so with what in them?
+about how many people total?
(big house and pretty big back yard! + pool
and like, little fort/tree house thing)
+dancing or no?
+movie or is that boring?
+my room - off limits?
+how long
+what time-ish?
+invite acquaintances or just good friends?
+even number of guys an girls or does it
matter?
+slow songs or no?

ETC ETC ETC

ANYTHING YOU LIKE ABOUT A PARTY, LET ME KNOW!


it would be good to get some info kinda quick just so i can start planning now.

thank you sooo mcuh you guys. im sure this will help a lot.


xoxo

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-pizza, chips, dips, just get bowls of all kinds of snack and stuff and have it out so they can eat it when they want. and MAKE sure you have drinks.

-ummm... spin the bottle, seven minutes of heaven, truth or dare? ha. ussaully at partys (from experience) everyone there kind of decides what games there ganna play.. like they be like lets play ______. or something.

-dancing is a must.!!!!!!!
theres a couple songs that i really recommened you play okay. i know you have music done but these aregood so..:
rock your hips
get low
run it
gimme that
get busy
like glue
freak a leak

-yeah make the party be both in the house and back yard. like... have music playing outside with food ect. and all that and like have music playing inside with food ect. and make it a pool party if you can! so like... have water guns out and like pool stuff out and what evs you know?

-well if your ganna have a indoor/outdoor party invite alot of people because you want it to me like the dance floor is full and people are eating and some people are swimming and some people are . i would invite anyone that your really talk to and if you want invite like everyone thats in your classes or just everyone you think is worth coming =]

-again if your having and indoor/ out door paty have movies out so that guests can just pop them in or what ev.

-i would say like.. keep the upstairs off limits if i were you. just let them in the floor level of you house and out in your back yard.

-alright heres my suggestion. if your ganna be like having both an indoor and out door party yoy might want to have it start earler so people can swim like in the sun. so maybe like 2:00- 9:30 or something like that. cuz some people might want to swim at night or be in the pool ect. thats really long but if you think about all the activities they have to choose from. like movies they can just pop in. swimming.. and DANCING.. and like going in your tree house thing. or what ever you know. and like if your just having a normal indoor party where you just dance.. i would say like 7:00 to 11:00

-invite anyone you think should come. i would say invite a LOT A LOT A LOT OF people for an indoor out door party. if you dont its ganna be pretty weird. i think like a "kick ass" hoouse party.. would be like jam packed of people you know?

-if you invite a whole bunch of people then your more likely to have everyone come. because if like "sally finds out that amanda is going to the party then hey shes ganna come to cuz there friends". get it so invite a hell of a lot of people because it seem so tme yoou have a big house or big property and you just want that filled up.

-make sure you have a good stero sytem or like music thing for the outside because you want it to be able to like be heard thro out the back yard to keep the "party vibe"

-and make sure music is play tho out the whole houseeee or atleast the part that they might be in.


-if people are ganna be outside when its night then like have ticki torches . you know those things that you stick then grow and you light them and liek they .. heres a pic ha. :

http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.safarithatch.com/imageGallery/TikiTorch_1.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.safarithatch.com/thatch/products/product.aspx%3Fid%3D76%26catid%3D&h=300&w=300&sz=24&hl=en&start=4&tbnid=0UyPmP32Wjv6GM:&tbnh=116&tbnw=116&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dtiki%2Btorch%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3Den%26client%3Dfirefox-a%26rls%3Dorg.mozilla:en-US:official%26hs%3DX0X%26sa%3DN

theres a whole bunch to choose from.. liek you dont have to have the ones that use fire.


remember to have real food at the party because if there going to be at your house for such a long time make sure you have these types of food:
snacks
drinks
pizza
deserts

make sure you have a WHOLE bunch depending on how many people you invite.


some cool things i love at a party are:
sparklers


beads
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://image.orientaltrading.com/otcimg/31_94.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.orientaltrading.com/products/C342754.jsp&h=350&w=350&sz=36&hl=en&start=3&tbnid=MSDQKyKX65ArDM:&tbnh=120&tbnw=120&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dnecklaces%2Bmardi%2Bgra%2Bbeads%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3Den%26client%3Dfirefox-a%26rls%3Dorg.mozilla:en-US:official%26sa%3DX

and i forget what there called but those things that you bring out at night and they light up. and you can wear like around you neck or anywere. theyd have all this stuff at party city probably.


-slow songs.. uhh yeah .. do the slow slongs more at night.. not alot tho.. because yeah. your atleast 13 so you know we like more.. crazy songs or what evs.



hope i helped. anything else you need just tell me.!

have funn.


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thank youssss (:




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