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Hi, I am Jennifer
I am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥

advice

well you guys might know me. im acctaully one of the people who gives advice on this site. but i dont know what to do. so please answer.

so theres this boy, it will be a month of dating next wendsday. but we were friends with like love before. and since we have been going out, things have been going really fast. i know its going toooooo fast. but today we were spose to hang out for valentines day, cause tommorow i cant hang out. and i couldent hang out last minute, and now hes like kinda mad at me, and is being weird. and is like i dont care. and im like about what, and hes like whatever or whatever he says. and then on i just kinda was like if your going act like this im going go so bye. and hes like whatever. i feel like a wreck and i dont want this to end.

i dont know what to do. and i dont know what to say to him. and i dont know what im asking you guys to answer about or whatever. and i dont know what im doing. i have never felt like this before.

please just talk to me.

im sorry this is so long.

What an inconsiderate guy! There might be good qualities in your boyfriend, but he's not showing them right now. Who does he think he is? It's not like you chose to be unable to hang out at the last minute.

Obviously, he is mad that you dropped out, but why is he mad that you dropped out? Because he really wanted to hang out with you, but couldn't. Well, if he keeps acting like this, he'll NEVER get to be with you, because of how he's acting. Tell him that.

Tell him there will be many other Valentine's Days to come for you two if the relationship doesn't end. It's just that you couldn't. What's wrong with that? It wasn't your choice. It was the way it was. Tell him stop acting as if it was your choice.

Apologize (even though it wasn't your fault) for being unable to hang out, but point out that you don't understand why he is being like this. You have to talk to him calmly and don't be harsh. Tell him exactly how you feel about this situation.

xoxo
hopefully you'll have a happy valentine's dayy

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(Rating: 5) aww thank you soooo uber much. you made me think about this in a whole new way.
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