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Hi, I am Jennifer
I am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥

advice

Everytime i talk to this boy online I start crying a little. He used to love me very much but then he started playing girls and stuff and then finally found one and has gone out with her ever since. She lives on the other side of the world. They aren't even a good couple, and they only talk about once a week. I talk to this boy every day about, and we have a better relationship. I already know I'm jealous about this girl.

He said he could dump her but he thinks its too cold hearted. I know its hard to dump people and I'm not forcing him but he talks about her alot and I tell him and he ALWAYS promises not to talk about her but he still does. I dont even know what he sees in her--once I talked to her and she was downright rude and mean.

But I am just letting my jealousy get the better of me. I feel like its ruining my life in a way. What should i do?!?!


It seems to me that this guy likes this girl a lot. Truthfully, I think you should leave the relationship alone and put a distance between you and this guy so he'll realize what it's like not having you around. Maybe this will spark something in this guy. Envy can get ugly. Think this way: If you're going so crazy for this guy and you don't even have him, what about the other halfway across the world? What do you think she feels about him? They wouldn't be in a relationship in the first place if there were no emotions between them

Ignore the guy when he starts talking about this girl. Stop hanging out with him as much. Maybe he'll develop feelings for you when you slowly began to drift away. He'll open his eyes about what it's like with you not being around him. Maybe he's taking you for granted.

But if he makes no effort to make a relationship between you two after you've left him, I'm sorry to say this, but he just doesn't care. Or maybe he came back to you but just in that friendly way, then he just thinks of you as a friend. If that happens, move on. You can't hang on to this guy forever.

If all goes well, then great! =D Hope you have a happily-ever-after ending!

xoxo
-Jenny C ♥

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(Rating: 5) Thanks :D This advice is so much better than what most people say// "Its none of your business so you need to let it go" lol thanks
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