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ok so to start off i like 3 guys alot, 2 are my best friends and the other one is the most popular guy in school. i dont know who i should go after and what to do.

guy A)my best friend for a long time, i've liked him forever but never told him i liked him and he's now going out with one of my best friends. he's the type of person that will always be there and just sit and listen and say some sort of quirky comment to cheer you up. me and him have a very complicated relationship. he's very flirty with me when his girlfriend isnt around and has smacked my ass a couple of times. and at parties he'll sit on me and be all flirty with me but he's always just joking around. his girlfriend knows he flirts with me sometimes but she knows its just a joke so shes ok with it. we tell each other "i love you" but just as friends. recently i told the guy that i liked him for a long time but i told him i stopped liking him when he started going out with his girlfriend, but that was a lie. i dont know if i should tell him i like him. if i do im affraid things wont be the same between us.

guy B) another one of my best friends. he's kind of a man whore that has never got any real action but he's currently looking for a friend with benefits. i dont want to be his friend with benefits although i have thought about it. he asks me what i think of girls that he has started talking to and took me on the ski lift for the first time so i wouldnt get scared (im scared of heights) and he stayed on the bunny hill with me the whole day even though he is a really good skiier. he's a really good person inside but he has girl problems. i told him i liked him about 3 months ago but i think he forgot. at parties he'll pay full attention to me and will flirt with me the whole time but in school we're just back to friends. i dont know how i should get him to realize that i still like him becasue flirting isnt working.

guy C) the guy would be my dream boyfriend. he has the perfect looks, funny personality, and same intrests as me. but he only talks to me for about 5 minutes a day. he has "his girls" they're not friends with benefits but he pays a ton of attention to them. i want to make myself stand out because i would really love to go out with him. but he's also a grade above me (but we have alot of classes together) and i dont know if he has an age issue. but how do i keep a conversation going with this guy and stand out from his girls

guy A sounds like the best choice if you ask me, but your situation is very complicated and it's like if u make a choice you can't change it. but yeah i think guy A is the best choice.

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(Rating: 5) thanks, now if he was single this would be easier


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