im 17 and i love giving and getting advice no subject is to weird OR tabo for me so im open to one and all love to hear from you and im honest i say it like it is theres no pretense with me!!!!!!!!!!
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I'm 22, F: Last semester I had a class with this one guy that I really like. He's very kind, outgoing and smart. I'm drawn to his personality. To make a long story short, I only "talked" to him a couple times, and even then, I didn't really feel myself...not because he's uncomfortable to be around, but because I feel so shy and akward when I'm really attracted to someone. When I feel comfortable, i open up and have tons of things to say, but getting to that point is the problem.
Anyway, today I saw him on campus and we talked a lot, but I felt so jittery. He's so outgoing, and I felt like I was talking a lot too, but I felt like something was holding me back from really speaking up. At times I was outgoing and comfortable, but I felt like I had persistent butterflies.
So, how do you open up to someone of the opposite sex? Any tips as to how I can be more confident, relaxed, and myself are appreciated :) (link)
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take deep breaths and tell jokes you know find small things to talk about like movies or an assigment and like you said you already started to open up so dont pull back it seems to me like you really like him try to relax and be yourself goodluck
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Thanks! I think the main thing is just to relax and be myself
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