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About 3 years ago, I fell in love with a band named Queen (as my username states :P). And well...what can I say? It was love at first listen. I FELL IN LOVE with Queen. I started collecting all of their CD's, books, vinyls, shirts, etc. I've had a crazy obsession with them for the past 3 years. My whole ROOM is Queen...I know the group members, and seen the two that are still alive in concert. Queen is all I ever talk and think about...they're like my second group of parents. I don't know whether its sick or not...but I've noticed it's been getting on people's nerves. Teachers have made comments telling me to lay off Queen. SO many friends have been annnoyed by my CONSTANT talk of Queen (I've also lost many friends because of it). Thing is -- I don't know what to do....This is clearly messing my relationships up. But I

I think you are a *wee* bit obsessed. But its only really unhealthy since you have lost friends over it, in my opinion. So I just say try to talk about it less, or say nothing at all...you CAN restrain yourself from talking about it =P I've had to do this same thing when I'm obsessed with things, and annoy my friends when I talk about it. Just think before you speak and dramatically cut down, I'm not saying never talk about Queen again. If you can, I also suggest just toning down the obviousness of the obsession, if it bothers those around you. =P I

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(Rating: 5) Hehe :] You have. Thank you so much. I agree...I'll try to tone it down. :D
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