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Age: 16
Member Since: January 10, 2007
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hey guys..im going to a party 2morrow and this guy i kinda like is going too. I know hes going to want to sit beside me and put his arm around me. What do i do after he does that? Do i lean my head on his shoulder? Or what?!?! (13/f)
-Thanks alot (link)
First, that is so sweet! I just got warm fuzzies all over!

Okay, but when he puts his arm around you, you don't have to do anything really. Just smile at him, then go back to watching the movie. (Or carrying on the conversation, or whatever you were doing.) If you feel comfortable, you can scoot closer to him so that your sides are touching.

But leaning on someone's shoulder isn't actually comfortable for anyone, and you'll want to take it off pretty much as soon as you put it down.


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Awww...thanks alot




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